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Monday, May 21, 2012

Dear Fam,
Today is the 21 of may and it's a great day. I'm happy. I'm great.

I'm way excited because I got a letter from Dexter. Mom you remember Dexter? He wrote a 9 page paper talking about what he's been doing for the last year and so. He's already in the mission field right now. He went to the McAllen, Texas mission and went to the MTC on may 9th. He's serving a Spanish speaking mission. He misses you. In the letter he said this. "You know one thing I've missed the most? Barry food." You remember how he had really long hair. Well of course now he doesn't because he's on a mission. Just sharing the news.

We had a miracle this Sunday. We had Stake conference and it was packed. But because of the distance to stake conference some on our investigators didn't go. But while we were there a member from another ward called us and introduced us to a lady. This women had come to conference all by herself and wanted to know more about the church. Actually she wants to get baptized. She has already chosen. She wanted another Book of Mormon because she lost hers. So this Tuesday we are going to teach her. I'm way excited. Talk about blessings.

We also are teaching a young man of 11 years that wants to get baptized. We have marked a date with him for the 3rd of June. He's doing great and is reading everything we leave him. He's a less-actives son and he loves the church. Reminds me a little of Tyler and Mike mixed.

This week we had a visit from Elder Ellis of the Seventy and wow. That was an amazing conference. We talked a lot about prayer and how we need to ask God for what we need. We learned that God does not have limits. If we ask him for 1 family to teach, why don't we ask for 2 or 3. God is not limited.

Love you
Endure to the End
Perseverar até o fim
Perseverar hasta el fin

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, April 30, 2012

Training

Dear Fam Bam,
All it well. Greeting. I'm still alive.
Mother's day is getting closer so I'll see you all on skype... maybe... if a member actually has one here. But it all comes down to it. I'll hear you here soon.

I'm doing wonderful here in Brasil. I can't believe how fast time flies. I just had an excellent transfer with my Companion and we are about to enter into the next. To Infinity and Beyond!! He's way amazing and I just learned that his dad is going to pass through Utah in August and that he has a bunch of uncles that live right around that area. We are way excited to plan and to work another transfer together. We just ended a 5 week transfer to we are starting the 2nd transfer on week 6 of the training but literally a whole bunch of the stuff we are studying, he already knows it. I feel like I'm the one being trained. Not him. He's the trainer here. It's pretty fun.

We are still finding people but none of them are going to church. We are really having a hard time in taking people to church. People say they will go and then don't. We are still going but it's hard when people don't follow through with their words.

Alright, So this week we had a visit of Elder Clayton from the Seventy and that was pretty cool. He talked about being a missionary that helps people enter into the church to stay in the church. He talked about how Baptizing and Reactivating are the same thing and should have equal importance. So me and Elder Condorí are doing our best to do everything and learn a better way to do it. The meeting was amazing. I loved it. Sister Clayton talked about D&C section 31 and how it gives promises and tells us what we should do as missionaries. Read D&C 31. It's great.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry
Eating Acai berries with Elder Condori.  It's a favorite of Matt's.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Wearing out

Dear Family,

I'm doing great. My worldly possessions are a wreck. My shirts are turning yellow, my pants have been ripping, socks are wearing out, my bags are better used as a speed bump in the street and my gym shorts are gym shorts. My mind is going and the hair is growing (you should see the chest hair but you can't so just look at the facial hair). I feel like old age is startin' to hit early.

I'm sorry but I don't have pictures that week (again) I forgot my camera and I'm a little scared to bring it because last week there was a robbery in the Lan House that we were in and it's a miracle that my camera wasn't stolen. The theifs only got about 2 Reais which is equal to about 1.50$. It could of been a lot bigger.

Mom, I think i'll try duck tape. Honestly. But you might want to send it in the next package because I'm not sure they have it here. If I'm going to be transfered (has a 20% chance) I don't know what I'm going to do. This tranfser is 5 weeks and we are already in week 3. So, I hope I stay.

Mom, I was talking with a missionary from my group today and he says that one of his best friends is in your mission. His name is Elder Tenney (I hope). The missionary from this mission, his name is Elder Greene. It's definately a small world.

I must say that I love training. It's a really stressful, funny and exciting experience. I keep on remembering everything that I did when I was a newbie on the mission. I keep laughing and I find funny things everyday. Lately is how nervous my companion gets on talking with people. I remember when I got on the mission and how funny it was for me. It's an experience that brings back a lot of memories about the mission. I hope I can help him th best I can.

Yeah, we are doing the 12 week training program. It's recent here on the mission for about 6 months. This is the first time I'm doing it and I'm trying to get a hang of it.

We are in a ward so there is a building. This is a really old church building. It is one of the firsts here in ceilandia. Actually it is the first here in ceilandia. We are working on a teaching group but we are getting there.

I was reading in the Liahona today and it hit me how much expereince the church leaders have. In the back of the conference issue it talks about the people being called to leadership possitions and I am realizing that these people are usually people who have gone through A LOT. They know what they are talking about. It's pretty cool.

We are now working with a lady named cleide. She is a mother of 2 members and knows that the church is true. She is just scared to get baptized. We are doing our best to help her out. We marked a tenitive date for the 22nd and I hope that we can help her through with it.

Love you all

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, April 02, 2012

Learning Spanish

Fam,

Well mom, that's rough. Man I knew the asparagus would get you one day. When I was younger I knew that it was unhealthy but ate it anyways. But now love it.

Well I got my new companion. His name is Elder Condori!. He's from Argentina. How cool it that? I'm training him and I hope everything goes all right. I think it's funny how things that just seem so second nature for me are pretty strange for him. Like for P-day today. We are here typing and sending email and he got in here and got on his email and started listening to some music that his parents sent him. Here on the mission we can listen to music just fine. Classical stuff is good and instrumental stuff is just fine. So I love Jon Schmidt. Well we go into the lan house and he throws on the earphones. I probably didn't realize for about 3 minutes but we have a rule that we can use earphones, but just one side. So I thought it was just really funny.

He's really outstanding. He plays the piano, loves music. Speak almost fluent English and is almost fluent in Portugues. He's pretty much a genius. I guess I'm not going to train him. He's going to train me. He's pretty short so it's pretty much a joke walking around in the street. He's just on fire and excited to work. I'm doing my best to follow him and learn from him because he has got some really great ideas. I'm excited.

General Conference was amazing. I loved it. As I did last general conference, I made a general theme. It's what I think general conference was all about. I like to sum it up in scriptures. D&C 24:7-9.



7 For thou shalt devote all thy aservice in Zion; and in this thou shalt have strength.



8 Be apatient in bafflictions, for thou shalt have many; but cendure them, for, lo, I am with thee, even unto the dend of thy days.



9 And in temporal labors thou shalt not have strength, for this is not thy calling. Attend to thy acalling and thou shalt have wherewith to magnify thine office, and to expound all scriptures, and continue in laying on of the hands and bconfirming the churches.



It talks about how we will have strength to do the Lord's work. We will have strength to do our calling and I was thinking how this could apply to all general conference. Well we all receive callings. Missionary, Dad, Home Teacher, Mother, Visiting Teacher and all the other ones we receive from God. These sacred calling are really important for our lives and for the lives of others. We are here to help and rescue others. Like less-actives and our own children to people we meet in the street. It is our calling. According to the scripture, when we do our callings, we will have energy to do it but if we try to do other things that do not apply to our callings, we wont have energy to do it.

I though it was pretty interesting.

Well I'm in a new area called Ceilandia. It's a pretty cool area. I with a newbie and we are opening the area. It's pretty hard but we are getting a hang of it.

Love you all

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

P.s Remember the talk by Elder David F. Evans. I liked it. Especially what he said about Missionaries.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

TRAINING

Dear Fam,

I resent that email from 2 weeks ago and on top of that, I'm sending this one as well.

Woah, Leah is 13? That is soooo cool. It's a little strange to me too. She's gotten old. She's an oldie... well almost. I honestly will be really surprised to see everyone when I get home. They will all be grown up and savin' China.

So transfers are this week and I was desobrigado. I was released from being a Zone Leader... I'm actually excited because being a zone leader is really tiring. I left Pedregal and I'm going to Ceilandia 1b. I'm going to be a normal senior. Well almost a normal senior... I'm going to train... I can't believe it. This is basically the calling that I've always wanted to try. Wow, I'm going to get my companion on Wednesday. It has a 50ish% chance of being american 35ish% chance of being brasilian and a 15ish% chance of being argentinan. You will get to know... next week. So don't forget to look in on that. :D

I don't think I got a package yet. I haven't heard anything. I hope it's coming. It's getting closer and closer everyday... well should be getting closer.

Cancer Free is good.

I hope Jekyll island doesn't turn into Hyde Island at random times cause that could get dangerous.

Well, All is good right now. Just to tell you those three people didn't get baptized but one of them still wants to get baptized. I don't know when but before I left she said that she wanted to get baptized and that the church is fullfilling all of her dreams that she had when she was a girl. I hope it all works out now.

I honestly don't know what to write this week because I'm in a new area and I know nothing about this area. Actually I'm not in my area yet. I'm in an area about 5 minutes ish from my area.

Endure to the End

Signing Out

Elder Barry

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

The River is Wide

Dear Fam,

...

Wow.

FAMILY REUNION!!!!

If you can tell, I'm speachless.

I just knocked in the head by a 2X4. But don't worry, your secret is safe with me.
I'll keep it secret.

Anyways. This sweet boy is more like a sweat boy. Wow, I have now realized that I am my Father's child. I basically get made fun of because I sweat sooooo much. We walk somewhere and the other missionaries joke that I have just gotten out of the shower. I know you probably don't believe it and you need to see it to believe it. It's true.

I'm sure that Jess will do just fine on the registering.

I'm glad that housing is all A. O. K.

Any Plans with the Fam is Fine. or APwtFiF for short.

So now lets talk about the weather. Yes, typical\everyone talks about subject. But it's super crazy here. For example, today started out blazing hot and now the thunder has come. Last night me and another missionary ran home in the rain. There was so much rain that we ran through the rivers or in other words the streets. We were at the bottom of a giant slant. Literally right at the bottom. So all the rain had come down from higher up and was going through the streets. If I stood in the water in the streets it would cover my shoes completely up to my ankles. Try running home through water like that. My shoes are still a little soaked because I honestly only have one pair right now. Yes I know, missionaries go through A LOT of shoes. I've been using these shoes for the last 5ish months. Hope they last longer.

This week was an upper and a downer. Up was that we marked date and an investigator received an answer to his prayer but the down is that he didn't go to church and his cell phone broke and that we haven't found him in his house. We hope that this week we can find him at least once to figure out what's going on.

In this area we find new investigators but they don't progress. It's hard. Everyweek we find new one that don't carry over for the next week. They like us, they want to change but don't have the strength to do it. We try to help them for 3 weeks but it just doesn't work.

Real fast. It just started to rain here. It's going to be river roads here. I'm glad I'm inside... But I don't know how we are getting home.

In this area we are finding a lot of people who aren't married and just don't want to get married or want to but don't have the money or their family lives somewhere else and can't come visit for the marriage. It's hard to deal with. But the people are all really kind and you can basically get into almost any house really easy. It's a lot easier than Valparaíso 1. A LOT easier.

The power just went out and turned back on. That is how heavy the rain was.

'The river is wide, and I can't get or' and neither have I the wings to fly.' This is how I feel right now.

One of our neighbors, well old neighbors, have been writing me. Well of course Meridith Blackburn always sends letters and I'm always grateful to receive them. But Christopher Erickson wrote me right before he left the ward. He sent me two letters and I sent him one. He always sends amazing talks in his letters like one from Jeffery R. Holland that talks about "The Inconvenient Messiah". It's an amazing talk that you should all read. I'm sure you can find it on the BYU Website because he gave the talk when he was President of BYU. It talks about the temptations that Christ had and he applies them to our day, things that happen all around us. I believe that everyone could learn something from reading this talk.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Singing Out

Dear Mom,

I was honestly surprised that you caught that 'singing Out' because I have sent that home in over a fourth of my emails maybe a little more. I think it's pretty cool that you finally realized. Go back in some of the other emails and look. It's in some of them if not half of them.

So we had another practice the other day because we had zone conference. It was my zone and another zone together (which makes our stake.) We have 2 zones in our stake and are working to help the members grow in their testimony and become closer to Christ. This way the stake will split. Well, we had another practice after zone conference.

Terça-Feira Dia 6 - At zone conference my companion and I had to give a 45 min-ish doctrine and it was pretty fun to give. It's fun to do that type of stuff. We had some metal mind bogglers. You know the ones where there is a ring in the middle and you have to take the ring off but it looks like there is no way to take it off. But there is a way if you move the parts the right way. Well we had about 12 of those and we called up 12 missionaries and had them try it in 2 minutes. We seperated them into groups of those who got it and those who didn't. All the metal mind bogglers were different so we switched it up again and gave new ones to all the missionaries and had them try it again. Well afterwards we split them up into 3 groups, the ones who were able to do 2 of the mind bogglers, the ones who only did 1 and the ones who didn't get any. We then talked with all of them and asked them why they got it or didn't get it. We then compared it to their areas and how every area is different. Each one looks different and has different people. But they all have a key or a way to be opened and they all have a way to find new people. We continued to talk about ideas with the missionaries about how to find news and help the people in our areas. It was pretty interesting.

Segunda-Feira Dia 5 - We had Mission Counsel and we talked a lot about being an example to the missionaries in our zones and helping all of them. I think I told you about the Standard of Excellence here, the Silver and the Gold. Well we set a goal to have 50% of the mission acheiving the Silver standard of excellence this month.

We marked a date also with Cícero. He is an investigator of ours that we have been working with for a while. He wants to change but isn't going to church. So we firmed him up and marked a date with him. We marked a date for the 31st of march. I hope this will help him in his decision to get baptized.

I'm glad everyone is doing great and thanks for the emails you have sent me.


Eu Amo Vocês.

Perseverar até o Fim

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, February 27, 2012

The Spirit Rains

Dear Fam,

If you like rain, you'd love the rain here (when it rains.) Because when it rains... it POURS!!! Seriously, Sometimes when it rains, we get stuck outside and don't have umbrellas. It takes us by surprise so we get stuck underneath something that protects us from the rain. Like right now, it's sunny, but here in 30 minutes it could be pouring. It's like good ol' Utah weather. You know how they say "If ya don't like the weather, wait 5 minutes."

An apartment by Brick Oven sounds great. I'm excited for it. Well scared and excited. It'll sure be strange. My companion is excited because he just got accepted to BYU today.

So about 2 weeks ago I spoke in church. I forgot to tell you that. I spoke in church the other day. It was fun. I talked about how there are people that we know that are ready to receive the truth that are all around us and all we need to do it open our mouths and tell them about it. I hope that at least some of the members got something out of it.

Pedregal is a branch that is bigger than some of the wards here in the zone. I think it's really close to becoming a Ward but I don't know. Maybe there are more things it needs. But in church this last week there were almost 100 people. That was cool.

In our stake the stake president wants to do a musical program with the missionaries. So guess who basically got put in charge. Yup, me. I'm guessing that's why I wasn't transfered, I need to do this music program. We had our first and only practice today and It sounds pretty good. I'm excited and hope that everything goes without a hitch. It's interesting to work with missionaries who know basically nothing about music. I hope they remember everything so that we can do the program all goody good.

I love reading the Ensign or the Liahona of the conference reports. It is so good. I read one by Elder Eyring the other day that has helped me a lot. He said to always work even though you are tired and exhausted. We must work. I loved it.

Right now my companion and I are finding new people to teach because the old people aren't progressing that well so we are basically going to start from scratch.


Endure to the End

Love you

Singing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, February 20, 2012

Movin' strong

Wow, I must say that my legs are pretty darn tired from soccer today. But afterwards we ate 2 bowls of Açai. You know the Brasilian fruit that everyone was basically talking about, yeah. It's so good. I love it.

We are hitting Carnaval. It's basically a big party here in Brasil. Everyone parties while the missionaries need to stay in the house. We have to get home early for about a week because it can be really dangerous here. Not just dangerous but scandalous. Honestly, from the little I've seen in the street and passing on TV (everyone watches TV) from all the little tid bits...wow. Watch out.

Today, I'm good. Great. I'm a little tired but that is basically every day especially a day of soccer. This week was really hard. We had transfers, meetings, meetings and more meetings. My companion and I basically lost 3 days just because of meetings we needed to go to. On the days we had free to work nothing happened until Sunday, last day of the week. We were walking past a house, I was on the phone resolving problems and my companion just stopped at a house we were walking past and started talking. This led to entering the house and teaching. They are a good family... well, not married family but they are still potential to progress. We are way excited. After a week of almost nothing, finally a result.

We are still working with the same people and they are all kind of... stopped. We need to do something different or find new people.

Maicon is only missing permission from his mom. She won't give it because she says that Maicon doesn't obey her enough. She basically says that it's our fault that he isn't changing and that our lessons aren't changing him. But we see a difference. I don't know how she doesn't see it.
Waldivino still is going to church. We can't get him to accept a date or stop smoking. But honestly after time of going to church he is probably going to ask to be baptized.

Sávio is still there, his foot is getting better. He went to another church the other day so now we know that he can go to church. We are going to work on that. Him in Chruch. Get him in and he'll ask to be baptized.

Family ties are strong, if Jess stayed in Idaho I would find time to go there.

Movin on, movin strong

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, February 06, 2012

Tender Mercies

Dear Fam,

Mom, it was strange to see "sent from my IPad at the bottom of every email. Since when does my mom know anything about technology.

Well, we are in our last week of the transfers and it looks like everything is going up. Looking up and going. We have about 6 men we are working with that can go to church this Sunday and we have a young man who wants to get baptized this week. We did his baptismal fecha the other day and we will return tonight to talk with his mom and get her to sign it. This kids name is Maicon. Remember him? His mom basically kicked us out and didn't want us to come back. After 4 weeks, Maicon went to church saying that his mom will let him get baptized. We are pretty excited. Tender Mercies.

We are teaching 6 men
Fêlix, Cicero, Savio, Hernando, Lucas, Gerson and then have some others. Waldivino, Arí and Meikon.

This is the biggest group of men I have ever taught in my mission. 3 or four of them have accepted baptism. It's way cool to see them grow and change too.

Dang, carry everything around again. Man, I don't know if my suitcases will handle it. But I'll find a way.

Well, I honestly don't have any more news this week. I'm just tired from playing soccer.

Sorry, I don't have more news.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Thursday, February 02, 2012

Dear Fam,

So all is good and all is well is Zion. Tudo bem. Tudo bem.

The reason why I didn't say anything about leadership in the past is that it shouldn't matter.

I was a District Leader in Valparaíso 1 for 3 months and then turned a Zone leader here in pedregal. In our mission we really don't have a jr. Zone leader and a Sr. Zone leader but if you want to think about it that way, this transfer I went a Sr. Zone Leader. I've been a zone leader here in pedregal for 3 transfers. Basically 2 como Jr zone leader and 1 como Sr.

I'm hoping meiken progreses too because he has started to work and it's been hard to find him again. But he's still only smoking 1 cigerette. It's a good thing. Now the hard part is getting off that one.

So Silver is
5 lessons with member
15 lessons in total (including other lessons and lessons with member)
2 in church and one of them with a dare
4 new investigators

Gold is
1 baptism or confirmation (You can get gold twice on the same investigator)
10 lessons with member
25 lessons in total (including other lessons and lessons with member)
4 in church and two of them with a date
7 New investigators

The reason we have two is that silver is the floor standard. It should be about 80% of the mission getting it. Right now we have about 40% getting it. The silver acts like a spring to get the gold. Usually those who get silver one week can get the gold in the next because there is at least 1 person at church with a date. This week we are going for silver because we don't have anyone who can get baptized or confirmed this week.

But we try to focus not on getting the Standard but on inviting other to come unto Christ. That is our purpose. Our purpose is not to get silver or gold. Silver and Gold are just a way we can accomplish our purpose. We could even work with less actives all the time and get them going to church and helping them return and we will accomplish our purpose. Invite others to come unto Christ.

One thing I learned is to invite others to come unto Christ, we need to be there first. We can't push or pull people to Christ. We can't show them the way to Christ. We invite them to come to a place were we are. That's why people say 'you can't convert someone to a higher level than you are.'

I wish we could have a giant stake conference like you had, mom. It's needed. Honestly. In every area I've passed through, there are only 5 or less really converted men in the area and only 1 or less can pass the idea to others. The church grows really fast in Brasil. The difficulty is getting them to stay strong because the church is still growing here.
All is well = Tudo bem

Tudo bem em Sião = all is well in Zion.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, January 23, 2012

Hello Family,

Well this week was a week full of goodness, It was an amazing week. I loved it. We worked "até o pó" (until the dust). It was a really good week. Honestly I feel great about everything until now. I'm still growing and I don't know what to do in every situation but I'm growing and that's a good thing.

We had a baptism that was way good, I'll send a picture. We have some perspectives for the 4th and the 11th which are way good too.

I have too much stuff that it's really hard to carry it around on every transfer. For example I have a bag I don't use. Basically my big bag I just keep all the stuff that I never use. It's about half full and thinking about how full it was when I left, I don't know how I'm making it to every transfer with everything. I'm wanting to send home the stuff I never use. I've been trying to send it home for the last 6 months and I could never get it off.

I've honestly reached the point where I don't want to go home. Unfortunately it's an inevitable end that all missions come too. But if it wasn't for a visa, I would try to stay longer on the mission. I'm learning probably more than I will in two years at home.

There are A LOT of things I haven't told you during my mission. I've probably told you less than half of my mission and I want to apologize that it took me 1 year and 5 months to realize that I should tell these things. I'm not the best but I'm learning.

So, I can't tell you everything right now but I'll tell you one thing that happened this week and I'll keep telling things about the mission in other emails.

Right now I'm in Pedregal as a Zone Leader. I'm been here for about 3 and 1/2 months. One thing that I love from being a Zone Leader is doing Interviews. I did an Interview for a lady named Maria leidilane. She is married but her husband didn't want to join the church. He was totally against it but she went right ahead and wanted to get baptized. Her husband tried tempting her with coffee a lot of times but she held strong. One thing that I wanted to share was during the Interview, we were talking about her family and something really cool happened. We were talking about how families can be forever and I had the strongest Impression that her husband would be baptized one day too. I started to cry because I knew and I know that God loves this lady so much. It was one experience that marked my mission and it has been one thing that I love to do. I love to Interview the people getting ready for baptism.

My new year's resolution was to write in my journal too. so far... so good.

I had an experience just like that Elder that got hit but a truck, except I wasn't hit. This was about 7 - 10 months ago. I was in Planaltina de Goias and the buses there are crazy. Truely crazy. I've never seen bus drivers like the ones there. Well I was walking with my District Leader (who had already been my companion Elder Santos) and we were with the Branch President walking to do a visit with him in a place really far. Well,we were walking up a hill that went slightly up. We were walking and walking and a bus passed us. This street is a pretty big street and here... we usually walk in the street or close. In that particular area we had to walk in the street. The street was big enough for two buses going in the same direction on one side and two buses going in the other direction on the other side. A bus passed us and I just had a feeling to look behind me. Right when I turned, another bus passed right where the right side of my body had been 1 second before. It's really interesting how the Lord protects. He does that for all the missionaries in the whole world.

Right now we are working with Meiken (Mike). Remember him from a while ago. We could never find him but we found him again and he is doing good. He was smoking 2 packs of cigarettes and now has only smoking 1 or 2 cigarettes per day. He wants to get baptized. He told us "I got to get me baptized." We are working with him for Dia 4 de Março.

In our mission, we have two Standards of Excellence, a Silver and a Gold. The Silver works like a base line of the work we need to do and the Gold is the hard one. The president wants that 80%of the mission gets silver. It's like the minimum work we should do. Well one thing I'm way excited about is that these last two weeks me and Elder Giles have gotten Silver. But this week we went for Gold. It was amazing. We threw it all in, planned and did it.

I hope you like the letter because it's cram packed with information. Hope your brain doesn't explode.

Endure to the End (of the Letter)

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Dear Readers,
I'm sorry I didn't post Matt's letter last week. His day to write letters this week was on Thursday and I was in the middle of zone conferences. I forgot to send it till now. In my last letter to him I asked him some questions to stimulate his thinking. These are the questions:
1. Have you had the chance to be a Sr. Companion? It’s okay to tell us things like leadership opportunities, baptisms, teaching experiences, contacting experiences. I love to hear those types of things. I feel you purposely don’t tell us the good things you do. It isn’t bragging.

2.Tell me when you felt the spirit this week and the events surrounding it.

3. Tell me a funny experience

4.What do you do on preparation day? Our missionaries have to wash the car and sometimes wax it. You don’t have that responsibility. What is it like to go food shopping? What are the stores like?

5.How are you feeling?

6.Tell us the everyday activities of a Brazilian. Do they have siestas? What is unusual that we don’t do in the states?

I felt that you needed to know the questions because he answers them randomly with no explanation. It's a trick to figure out where he is going. I'm grateful for the juicy letter. Mom/Marilyn


Dear Fam,

Today we don't have a lot of time because in 20 mins we need to leave because my companion needs to do an interview. So, I'm sorry if I don't get everything responded to because I still need to write president.

Elder Giles has been in the pageant and his dad is the director of the pageant. So he knows exactly what you are talking about. Me, I'm still a little bit clueless.

(Matt's comp is from Castle Dale so I told him in the last letter about the pageant there and the times we went to it - Mom)

Sorry for not saying anything for the last while about it. I just don't like to talk about it... but if you want to know about it I will tell you.

I've been a senior since about May. It's been a new experience. It's been pretty cool to teach and take the lead in some lesson but honestly, I have so much to change. My new companion, Elder Giles, has shown me a whole bunch of stuff that I can do to become better from the way I talk to people to the way we teach. I used to teach a little like a robot. I've been working on overcoming that and learning on how to really teach people.We had a really good lesson with a man named Sávio. He is really good. The only problem is that he has a broken foot. It's been broken for about 1 month and he is having a hard time going to church because of it. But the first lesson with him this last week was amazing. We saw him driving a car yesterday so that's a good sign. We will see what's going to happen there.

We had a meeting with President Geartner on Monday, (which is the reason why I'm writing today.) and it was really good. He talked to us about helping others around us and living by example. Teaching by example and being a better example are somethings that I want to strive for plus doing better contacts and meet more people and not being afraid.

Funny experience, Well not funny but good. We ate at Burger King today. It was sooooo good.

On preparationg day we email, write letter and clean the house and sleep. Maybe study. Eat at burger king. Do some fun activities. Food shopping is just like a grocery store. Nothing different. It's big and cool and has food inside. I think that's how it is in the states. I usually eat oatmeal, milk and chocolate mix in the milk. It's way good.

I'm feeling good. Honestly. I have a lot to get better at and it's overwhelming sometimes all the things that need to be done in missionary work. You know how I'm antsy about the future. I just need to take things step by step. Other than that I'm great. I need to follow the counsel in 3 Néfi when it says focus on today and don't worry about tomorrow.

An unusual thing about Brazil is all the houses are tiles. There is no carpet and to clean you just throw water, soap, scrub with a broom and then use a squigee to take all the water out. That's something different. Also the showers only have one setting, cold. To take a warm shower you need to buy a shower head that is hooked up to the electricity and when the water passes through, it warms up. It's just a little bit different. Our water heater you usually don't see. Also they are supposed to have building permits to build stuff... but... they usually overpass that and just build. So it ends up with some pretty cool building. But they are sometimes strange.

I have make a goal to study the missionary manual to be more obedient. I've been studying in depth so I read all the scriptures and follow references and everything. I've read about 5 pages in 4 days. somewhere around that time. I also have a goal to study more of Preach my Gospel because that is something that has been lacking. The last time I studied all the way through was about a year ago. So I need to focus again and learn something more. I also want to learn more scripture references and read the Bible , D&C and Pearl of Great Price and the Book of Mormon in Spanish before the end of my mission. It's a lot of goals but I know when I plan I can do them. I'm way excited this year to learn more about everything. Knowledge is a Christ-like attribute and through this I can accompish more Christ-like attributes. It's going to be an amazing year. I'm excited.

I just want to challenge every single one of you to pick a spiritual goal like reading the scriptures everyday or studying Preach my Gospel. Or read and study the bible. Or read one of the Teaching of the Prophets books. The gospel principles book is a goody. I know we can all strive to gain more knowledge about how we can help others and helps ourselves. After you gain the knowledge. Apply it.

I Love you

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, January 09, 2012

New Year

FELIZ ANO NOVO!!!! FELIZ DOIS MIL E DOZE (2012)

Querido Família, (Dear Family)

Eu Amo Vocês!!! (I love you)

It was so great to see you (almost) all on Christmas and I hope that everyone is having a wonderful New Year.

One thing strange or awesome about Brasil is that there were A LOT of Fireworks on new years. I woke up, watched a little bit and couldn't go back to sleep because it was so loud. It was a cool experience. I was actually surprised with how many fireworks there were. I'm in a poorer area and I was surprised with how many fireworks people bought.

I wrote a whole bunch of notes on my patriarchal blessing, now I need to go back and review them because there is a lot of things there that I can learn from and grow from.

New years was a day like any other day for me. Only difference is that we woke up around mid night to look at the fireworks. But honestly, people are a lot happier here during Christmas and New Years. I hope it lasts.

I think the biggest difference for me is that my plans now need to include what is going to happen after the mission. It's strange to think that in 7 months, everything isn't planned for me. I need to actually plan 100% of my days. I'm so excited to do love gifts for next year. I'm already planning something awesome.

So for transfers, I stayed in the same area and got a new companion, His name is Elder Giles and he's also from Utah. He's from Castle dale (try finding that on a map.) He is actually in my same group. We will be going home together and we are way excited to work together.

I love Lehi's dream and thanks on the insights. I find that the best way we learn is sharing what we learned. Something cool that I learn this week was in church. We learned about the mission of the church. The mission is to invited all to come unto Christ. We learned about three over lapping circles 1. Missionary work 2. Perfecting the saints 3. Work for the Dead. These three circles overlap in a way that when we are doing missionary work, we are becoming more perfected. When we are doing the work for the dead we are becoming more perfected and helping missionary work. When we become more perfect, we have a desire to serve others and help in missionary work and go to the temple. So you could say that we should have some goals as members of the church. 1. Help the missionary work 2. Go the the temple and do work for the dead 3. Become Perfect.

I loved this lesson we had in church. I hope you all can learn from it too.


I love you and hope everything is going wonderfully good.

Do what is right.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Hello my dearest Family,

So Natal (Christmas) is coming. It's right around the corner. It's comin quick. 7 days.

I'm fine now. I don't really feel sick but I'm keeping the same weight. Not going up or going down.

I would love to skype and talk with you alls. In the last letter we got from president they changed it to 45 mins. I can skype totally tranquilo (peace). Wow, some sayings in portugues just don't work in English. But I honestly don't know what time it will be at... yet... It's not a good thing that I don't know. Maybe you might just need to be ready because I don't know when my companion will talk with his family and I don't know when the Brasilians will talk with their families. So it's all up in the air about the time. You just might get an email the day of telling you. I'm so sorry, mom. Just have the e-mail on your phone open and ready to roll. (Sorry, This year is not so organized)

So, we had practice today for the Christmas Conference and it was pretty good. The music is hard and for missionaries, they are doing fantastic. They are doing wonderful. They sound sooooo good.

I'll let you know what happens next week from the Christmas Party.

We had the branch Christmas party this last Saturday and it was pretty fun. We had 3 Investigators there and a whole bunch of people. A funny thing from the party is that it was supposed to start at 7 o clock. But it really didn't start until 8:30ish. It's called Mormon Standard Time mixed with Brasilian Standard Time. Things never start on time. It's guaranteed. (Sorry for the spelling)

But since it started at almost 9 o clock and we probably had to go before we could eat, our Branch President took one of our phones, called the President of the Mission and asked him if we could stay longer. The Mission President said we could stay out as long as we liked just as long as we were with the Branch President. Woah. We got risky and got home at 10:25 and I was sleeping at 10:30. Talk about risky buisness.

Just a side note. I never thought it would be easy to sleep on a bus. I slept on one for about an hour today. It was strange. That has never happened before in my life, especially on the mission.

So I'm working in a zone that is trying to make a stake. Does that make sense? We are trying to help the Stake split right now. But that isn't the main focus. The main focus is to invite others to come unto Christ through faith, repentance, Baptism, Gift of the Holy Ghost and Endure to the End. All the rest of the things we do are just bonuses.

It's amazing how God helps us and gives us revelation when we need it. I was studying the scriptures 3 weeks ago and ran into something interesting about murder and things like that and repentance and forgiveness. So I put a sticky note on it and continued studying. Yesterday, me and my companion were talking with the people we were living with and they telling us their difficulties and we were telling them ours. It is amazing that one of their difficulties was directly related to the scripture I marked 3 weeks ago. I got to share it with them. It's amazing how God guides and leads.

Love you

Endure to the End

Singing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, December 05, 2011

This is a mission picutre. I know it's too small to see Matt. Look at the two Elders standing up in the window sill. Matt is just to our right of the right elder. Of course he is standing on the ground.

Happy and Tired

Dear Family,

I'm exhausted. I feel like one of the Elders from "The District 2" The one who says "I'm so tired, I don't understand how I can be so happy when I'm tired."

So Mom, I'll get the innfomation so that we can talk on Christmas. I'll know tomorrow if we can Skype or just talk on the phone. The mission president didn't set a time. He just said "Be wise" or in other words "Don't be Stupid". If you have a small family, don't talk for 10 hours. If you have a big family, you can't talk to them all within 1 hour... so We just need to be wise. I'll plan with the other missionaries in the house about the times and when we will talk. I don't know if it will be on Saturday, Sunday or Monday... I don't know what days or time. But I'll let you know.

We had another practice today and it was good. I'm just tired. We are singing for the Missionary Christmas Meeting. There are about 12 elders and 12 sisters, 1 pianist(who has to play the hardest music ever) and 1 violinist. It's pretty fun. These missionaries are from almost all the zones in the mission. That zone that is forever away will have their own Christmas party because they can't bring them all back.

The part member family didn't get married. The husband is fishing around for excuses... I don't know why but he is just delying the time over and over again. Elder Johnson and I are going to go there and just help them... some how. I don't know how... but we will follow the spirit, He knows what to do.

Winter? It's summer right now. It's the rainy season. It's rains cows and horses and a couple of whales. (Not just cats and dogs.) The rainy season is literally the rainy season. Everyday basically rains... and if you forgot your umbrella then you are getting soaked. It's pretty hot too. It's hot when it doesn't rain. Lets just say... it's always hot. When it's hot it rains.

I got one Christmas package, I'm debating on opening it now... or finish opening it now... or wait. I don't know. I bought a little Christmas tree to put on my desk... so I might put the rest of the presents under the tree.

Well. I honestly don't know what to say more. How about Jacob 6:12. Good Scripture. It is basically a new rule in our mission put in by Elder Evans. He said "Don't be stupid" I think "Be Wise" Close enough.

A cool saying from our mission president: "A man that works like 10 men is valuable, A man who makes 10 men work is so much more valuable." I'm sorry if it sounds a little weird. I can't think of the words to trade it from Portugues to English. Wow my English is off.

I love you.

Endure to the End

Singing Off
Elder Barry

Monday, November 28, 2011

High Five from Brasil

Family,

Alright mom, I'm just joking about the High five letter. I just wanted to see if I could get a shorter letter than Mark. It's competition. Bring it on.


Welp. "One more (P-)day" (Les miserables)


Thanksgiving was great for us. We had a mission conference with Elder Godoy. It was amazing and I loved it. I'll share a little bit more about it later. But on that day we went to an 'all you can eat buffet' as a mission. We Americas were just pounding that food down. President finally called (cause he wasn't there) and told us to get out of there, leave. I was still eating. I had to leave my plate of food and split. But it was an amazing Thanksgiving Lunch.


This week we had another music practice and I am learning more and more about how to lead a choir and the preperation that goes into it. I am loving it. Especially when it all comes together. It was a really good practice. We are going to sing (in Portugues of course) 'Joy to the World', 'What child is this?', 'This is the Christ' and 'Oh come oh come Emmanuel'. It's going to be fun and I hope that some of these missionaries find time during the week to practice. It a big thing to ask because they need to do missionary work too. But this is for our Christmas Party on the 22nd of December. It's going to be good.


Study time is something that I love to have. It is so much fun and I learn so much. It's cool how you learn how to study and what things to look for. But that is something I will also talk about later.


Sidenote, I was in a trade with a new missionary and it is amazing how well prepared these new missionaries are coming in. He told me not to speak in English cause he knows Portugues. So we talked in Portugues all day.


Tonight Elder Johnson and I have a Family Night in the house of a part member family. We are trying to get hold of the Branch President to get him there too with his family. This part member family is also going to get the process for marriage started tomorrow or Wednesday. We are excited for that.


So When Elder Godoy came, he talked about a lot of things but one thing he talked about is something that only missionaries will understand (or maybe ex-missionaries too). He said that there are two types of missionaries, well maybe two types of teaching styles. One is the Christ-Like Attributes missionary and the other is the Chapter 10 teaching technics missionary. These are the two sides. The Christ-Like Attribute missionary just thinks about the spirit. He is always asking if you have felt the spirit. He is timid to talk with others but has very good personal studies and personal prayers. The Chapter 10 missionary is very good at talking with people. He teaches and uses everything in the right way. He does contacts easily but his personal study is not the best. he can't concentrate on his study and during his prayers. He's a go and do it missionary.


It is amazing how true this is about every single missionary. But now we think of this as a scale we should always strive for 50% Christ-like attribute missionary and 50% chapter 10 missionary. We will have the spirit and we will open our mouths. It was something that I thought was cool.


Another thing he taught was about the size of our calling as missionaries. When we arrived on the mission, we weren't really close to the size of our calling. But as we strive, we grow. By the end of the 2 years we should be the size of our calling. We should have grown completely through-out the 2 years. He then warned us to not be at 1 year on our mission and have only grown the size of a 5 month missionary and not to be at 1 and a half years and not have grow at all.
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Who isn't progressing, is falling behind


I love you


Endure to the End


Signing Out
Elder Barry

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Sorry

Dear family,

Sorry... unfortantely that is the first word of this email.

My companion and I are so tired. Today we played soccer as a zone and we are barely getting through our emails. My companion is just typing with one hand because he's exhausted. To put more on top we helped move a family this week too. It was amazing. They needed it Elder Johnson and I loved doing it. But now all the physical stuff is getting to me. Moving on Saturday, soccer today... I'm about ready to fall asleep... But Endure to the End is always the motto.

I learned some unhappy news. You know how the mail was on strike here. Well since there were so many letters. A lot of places threw away about 80% of the letters. Sorry if you sent a letter fam. It probably was thrown away.

We have an investigator who is really good. He was a reference of a member. He went to church and loved it. We need to work with him a little bit more. He has little problems with A palavra de Sabedoria (The word of Wisdom) but he really wants to change his life. His name (get ready) is Mike Tyson. I couldn't believe my ears when he said that. His dad named him Mike Tyson. But he'll definately get baptized some day.

Edicarlos is doing fine. We are excited because he won't work this Sunday and he can go to church. We are really excited for him to actually go and experience church.

I was studying in the "First World Training Leadership Meeting". There is a talk by President Gordon B. Hinckley where he talks about missionary work. It is an amazing talk. I loved it. It talks about all aspects of missionary work from members to the missionaries themselves.

I love you.

Every single one of you.

Endure to the End

Signing Out
Elder Barry

Monday, October 31, 2011

Pedregal - one big hill





REPLY!!!! NOW. GO!!!!

Hello my dear family.

Thanks for all the Birthday wishes and all the love that I have been getting. It's great. Thanks for the package... I literally got it... today, two hours ago but I haven't opened it yet. With the mail strike and everything I was thinking that I was going to sing like Harry Potter. "Happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me, no presents, no body, happy birthday to me." But now I won't have to. The mail has opened up and I got flooded with letters today. One even all the way from Kenya (Elder Hodges). That was an awesome suprise. He is already done with his first transfer. That's just crazy.

Something that totally turn my world over was that our mission president said we could get on Facebook ONCE and update it with our testimony. I thought that was pretty smart.

Well, I'm actually doing pretty great. Wonderful actually. My companion and I are doing our best to milk our area, leave with members everyday and talk with more people. We are having some pretty good expereinces but wow... we are working so hard that when Sunday comes... we are so tired... we literally can't get out of bed. But we do. We go to church and word a little bit more. It's pretty fun.

Life is just flying by. Honestly... it's crazy how fast it flies by. When I got the email asking when my release date would be my world basically turned upsidedown shook itself for a while, did a couple of backflips as my body exploded. The computer quite literally went straight through my mind. But normality has been established and with a quiet fright, I move on. It's literally coming too fast.

Anyways. Just so you know I'm wonderful.

On the 10th of Nov we are going to have some visits from general authorities, Elder Mazzarguard and Elder Evans. It's going to be so cool. The mission has been quite low in baptisms in the last while. Honestly, it's like we were running, then got tired, now we are walking taking a joyride looking at all the cool things. But me and my companion have been seeing some amazing things happen around us and with us. Missionaries finding miracles and receiving blessing, baptisms happening. My district leader is having weekly baptisms and I want to be like him. He is actually one of my old companions, Elder Romero, if you remember him. He is an amazing missionary and is baptizing almost everyweek.

Anyways. I'm sending some pics. I hope you like them cause I do.

So I have been working on memorizing D&C 4 this week and it has been giving me added strength. It's so cool to see how scriptures help. Honestly. Memorize one. See the added strength you with receiving.

Endure to the End

I love you

Signing Out
Elder Barry